Eulogy
Summing up the life of a loved one in a few words can be a deeply personal and often difficult task. A eulogy is a tribute given at a funeral or memorial service in memory of the deceased. It may be delivered by a family member, relative, or close friend, or you may prefer to ask the priest, minister, or celebrant to speak on your behalf.
Traditionally, a eulogy reflects on the key milestones and meaningful moments of a person’s life, and may include personal stories and cherished memories.
Below are some suggestions that may help guide you:
- When and where your loved one was born
- Details about their parents and siblings
- Early childhood memories and interests
- Education and schools attended
- Career and workplaces
- Marriage(s) or significant relationships
- Children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren (if applicable)
- Hobbies and passions
- Personal qualities and achievements
- Favourite stories, special memories, or meaningful quotes
You may also wish to include a poem, reading, or verse that reflects your loved one’s personality, beliefs, or spirit.
There is no “right” way to write a eulogy — the most meaningful tributes are those that come from the heart.
Tributes & memories
How is a tribute different from a eulogy? While a eulogy often provides an overview of a person’s life and key milestones, a tribute is more personal. It is a heartfelt reflection on the impact your loved one had on your life and the lives of others.
A tribute may be shared through stories of time spent together, special memories, or the influence your loved one had on you personally.
You may wish to reflect on:
- Holidays or special occasions shared together
- School or work experiences
- Their personality and unique qualities
- What you learned from your relationship with them
- The impact they had on the community
- A personal letter of love or gratitude
This tribute can be read during the service by yourself, a family member, or a friend. Alternatively, you may choose to have the priest, minister, or celebrant read it on your behalf.
Above all, a tribute is an opportunity to speak from the heart and honour the meaningful connection you shared.
